• Are You Talkin’ Crap?

    I mean to yourself. Are you talkin’ crap to yourself? Have you really ever even thought about how you talk to yourself?  Or how much you talk to yourself? Probably not.  But let me tell ya…..I was the biggest crap self-talker EVA!  It’s true. Don’t be me.  And to help you avoid that dark hole,  I want you to give…

  • Confidence Can Be Yours!

    I’m not gonna lie……I used to loathe the topic of “self-confidence”.   Probably because  I had none…..and what people DID think I had, I faked. Seriously….I was the Queen of “fake it til you make it”. Over the last several years, I’ve done the work. Every self-help + growth + get your shit together book. Seminars.  Webinars.  Classes. Therapy. And sooooo…

  • Outta Control!

    Back about 5 weeks ago when Corona came to town and most of the world went under the Stay At Home orders, a super weird phenomenon began happening.  Seriously weird.  And up until this week I didn’t understand it AT ALL.   People all across the world started hoarding toilet paper. Like, legit hoarding it. You couldn’t find the stuff anyfreakingwhere!…

  • Feeling Lost?

    It’s such an unsettling time in our history, right? Back in early March, most of our lives changed in ways that we never could have imagined.   And it seems like everywhere you turn, that’s all you see.  Coronavirus.   The unknown can be a very scary thing for all of us and we all deal with it in different ways.  I…

  • Black Is My Happy Color

    Have you ever heard that quote, “I’ll stop wearing black when they make a darker color?”  Well……that’s yo girl. When we first met, my husband used to make fun of me.  He’s joke that my closet was full of “ready for a funeral” clothes.  Heavy on the black with shades of gray, some white and a few neutrals tossed in…

  • Why Do You Do Both?

    Well…..in short – because they really DO go together! I’ve gotten more than a few messages since the beginning of 2020 asking why I do both.  Both as in Reckless Grace Boutique + this.  Her Confident Life.  And some have even wondered if I’m giving one up to move forward with the other.  And THAT answer is a giant, definite…